How come it seems like all BLM's (every single one of you) live 5,000 miles from me.
No one lives close enough to make the trek for a cup of coffee... once a month... ever. I mean, that can't really be true so where is everyone? I've frequented local mom sites and have yet to find a SINGLE post about wanting to connect with others that have lost. Wanting to find someone for support for the long-term (read: forever).
I know that there are large scale support groups out there, but I'm looking for one or two gals to hang out with.
I wonder if non-BLM's feel like we'd just sit around and cry over pictures of our dead babies. Maybe we would sometimes but just once, I'd like to sit in a room with someone else and not have to think about what I said before I said it. To just know that they really, truly get it.
Besides, it feels really isolating. Like I'm the only one in the entire world with a dead baby.
I guess this could be a hidden opportunity?
Well where are you? Any time I find another BLM close to where I live, I end up not connecting with her, or flat out not even liking her within our first few conversations. I love my blog moms though. I wish you all lived closer to me too.
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